wow. xanga. havent been on here for awhile. lol.. does anyone read this anymore? hahah anyways. hello xanga world..once again. iono. im bored. and im home on a friday soo im lame and decided to visit my xanga.. cant believe i remembered my password! hahah  sooooooooo.. was looking thru my old entries. found this. kinda interesting how things havent changed at all.. read. enjoy. ttyl..... or not. lol ♥heather "the heart is a foolish thing ya know.. it holds on to things when you know you shouldnt. or it moves on but when its too late. its so foolish that our feelings and emotions are so messed up that the only thing we know is to put ourselves through situations that only hurt us in the end. sometimes our heart is smart and gives us time to heal.. but all the other times, we jump into relationships that probably wont last.. when we want them to... something i've learned about my OWN foolish heart:-- letting go is an ongoing process. you cant just move on.. everyday is a battle to fight the urge to care for someone when you know you shouldnt.. or at least you know they dont feel the same way back =( --to love again isnt about getting over your last broken heart, its about believing that you deserve better, deserve to be happy not sad anymore.. and that you cannot change the past but can change the future..--sometimes things dont go our way, instead of complaining about it, do something about it. but if all is said and done and things still arent the way you want them to be.. then accept it.. and move on. yes it sucks. but its whats needed to be done.--to open your heart isn't simple after its been broken so many times. but dont let that fear of getting hurt destroy what could be.. its unfair to not explore possibilites to you and to whoever else involved..-- lastly, love isn't what we all want it to be. its not romance, its not the fairy tale story we read in books. its none of that... no one can tell you what love is.. only yourself can answer that.. whether love is joy or love is pain.. love is what it is....." basically.... live. love. learn. ©heather lim | 
